"What is Dating a Chinese Woman Like?"

Live in Mainland China and want to date a Chinese woman?  

If you're like me then you find Asian women beautiful…so why not?

That being said - what are some cultural differences and realities you'll have to face? 

Also are all girls from China the same?

Get ready to find out!

Note: Here I'm talking about Mainland women who live in the bigger cities.  Hong Kong and Taiwanese women are also different.

Most Mainland Women Have Never Met a Foreigner Before!

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This isn't shocking. 

Most locals in the bigger cities (Beijing, Shanghai, Shenzen, etc…) have just immigrated and have never seen someone from a different country before.

In a lot of cases you just talking to a local girl is a big deal to her. 

Not only that but your Western mannerisms might scare her away…or intrigue her depending on what type of Chinese girl she is.

Note: Discover the 3 different types of pretty Chinese women here. 

Quick Tip:  When you meet a Mainland lady be sure to give her more space than you would a woman back home.  I also recommend having 'a reason' to talk to her.  

This will make her feel more comfortable with talking to you.

Besides having to act as a cultural ambassador at every potential date - what else can you expect from Mainland ladies?

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"Are Mainland Women Really Conservative?"

Most ladies from China are traditional and conservative. 

When you're dating a Chinese woman you might realize that her views on dating and yours are extremely different. 

Start dating Chinese women the simplest way possible.  If you live in Shanghai then discover how to date Shanghai girls too!

Quick Tip:  Make sure you ask her if she's ever met a foreigner before.  If she has then chances are she understands the differences between Western and Asian dating.

For example - casually holding hands with you might shock her.  The thought of having sex before marriage never occurred to her.

The biggest difference worth being aware of is that 'sex' may equal 'marriage'.  So you'll have to be patient…a lot more than you realize.

"How so?"

Read on...

Your Asian Date Might Not Know About Basic Hygiene

The shocking reality that most guys face when they date in China is how little many Mainland ladies know about hygiene.  Discover for yourself if that sexy Chinese woman is in fact...sexy.

Understand that most of China is just rising out of poverty.  Also because of Mao's "cultural revolution" most people from China stopped learning about culture and cleanliness.  Local farmers didn't need to bathe that much I guess.

Quick Tip:  Be sure to you let your Asian date know your 'cleanliness' expectations.  You might have to teach her basic hygiene.  Rest easy - once you do these problems will disappear.

Is Dating a Mainland Girl For You?

Note that I am generalizing.  There are many local women in mainland who

 • have studied overseas
 • practice good hygiene
 • date like people in the West would

That being said you'll have to sift through a lot of women to find them.  Granted if you live in either Beijing or Shanghai it would be faster.  You can even do some online Chinese dating once you know the top sites (click on the link to find out.) 

In fact once you know where to go meet sexy Chinese women you're 50% likely to do better.

In any case - get our exclusive Asian dating tips and goodies to boost your chances at an satisfying dating life.

Talk soon! ;-)

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